Tone of voice
If you are planning a traditional wedding, it is usually best to stick to more formal language. However, for casual days there is more room for personalisation and character within the wording.
Traditionally, if the parents of the bride are paying for the wedding, the invitation should be sent from them, with wording such as ‘Mr & Mrs Smith request the pleasure of your company at the wedding of their daughter’. However, many couples today pay for their own weddings or share the cost with both families, so this is very much a personal preference.
Perhaps the most important wedding invitation words are the details for the day, and you will need to include the address and times for the ceremony and reception.
Your guests will appreciate a clear invite, so be specific about whether they are invited to the ceremony and the reception or just the evening reception. In addition, make sure to include details of whether plus ones and children are invited.
Many couples choose to include an RSVP card with the invite; however, you will need to provide an address and an RSVP deadline, which is usually set to 4 weeks before the wedding. The RSVP card is also a great chance to asks guests if they have any specific requirements.